The spite and bile of these Comments totally ignore the issue that the article is about. Getting back to the topic, even if the male or female has been tested before having sex, that doesn’t mean that person won’t have sex outside the relationship the very next day or someday…because people are human and humans are that way. Condoms are a good mean of dealing with that, but if your partner is insisting on condoms it could be because your partner herself is having sex with someone else or plans to. (That happened to me>) And, of course, condoms are like taking a shower with a raincoat on. So you just gotta go with the flow a little bit and hope for the best – at least for heterosexuals. Terrible that this is true, but it is. You will probably get some diseases along the way, sad as that is, but if the alternative is a life without sex, it is like a life without living.